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Not Just Another B&B

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What do you get when you mix teens and pre-teens together with a kitty lit­ter cake, soap mak­ing demon­stra­tions, pizza party and an all night slum­ber party?  Not much slum­ber for sure!  It prob­a­bly had some­thing to do with the ghost sto­ries told by the guests.  Can’t wait for the next teen event– a sweet six­teen slum­ber party next week!

Speak­ing of ghost-we don’t have any.  Sorry.  If that dis­ap­points you there is always the Lizzie Bor­den B&B.  How excit­ing that would be for ghost lovers.

Ah and for excite­ment, life at the Ell­wanger has cer­tainly been that and more.  The month of May was chock full of guests cel­e­brat­ing any­thing from a grad­u­a­tion with a Harp Recital, to Break­fast at Tiffany’s Bridal Shower (see photo).

And now for some much needed R&R.  Do you need a respite from your hec­tic work and social schedule?

July is a great month to cel­e­brate life with “Tak­ing out the Knots” package.

  • Noth­ing takes the knots out like an urban retreat, lux­u­ri­ous accom­mo­da­tions, touch ther­apy and a boun­ti­ful breakfast

Pack­age Includes:

  • Two nights accom­mo­da­tion in the His­tor­i­cal Ell­wanger Estate
  • Two– 1 hour massages
  • Break­fast each morning
  • Spa Gift Basket
  • Late check­out of 2pm
  • Price $465, Phone Reser­va­tions only @ 585–546-5103

*Guests are advised to make their spa reser­va­tions ASAP prior to arrival.  All pack­ages are based on avail­abil­ity.  Excludes taxes and gratuity.

Lax and Relax

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Even if you’re not a hor­ti­cul­tur­al­ist or a gar­den­ing expert, you can still appre­ci­ate all the beauty that Mother Nature has to offer with a gar­den stay at the Ell­wanger Estate bed & break­fast. The Ell­wanger offers a Zen-like sanc­tu­ary with stun­ning gar­dens and out­door views that may inspire you to cre­ate your own secret garden.

The Ell­wanger Gar­den is home to over 300 dif­fer­ent vari­eties of peren­ni­als, roses, peonies, and also fea­tures award win­ning pear trees. Our guests are invited to walk through the mean­der­ing gar­den paths, or sit, reflect and medi­ate.  Or you may wish to sign up for hor­ti­cul­tural sem­i­nars at the Rochester Civic Gar­den Cen­ter. And as a spe­cial treat, all guest receive heir­loom seed packs, com­pli­ments of the Estate.  Hope to see you down the gar­den path.

Saluting the Troops

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As we Salute the Troops this week­end and every­day,  I recall the fol­low­ing arti­cle that cap­tures it best:

Any­one who has ever looked into the glazed eyes of a sol­dier dying on the bat­tle­field will think hard before start­ing a war.” Otto Von Bismark

Each year, Memo­r­ial Day gives us the for­mal oppor­tu­nity to acknowl­edge and appre­ci­ate the men and women who have died in mil­i­tary ser­vice to our nation. The hol­i­day was orig­i­nally called Dec­o­ra­tion Day. Though Water­loo, N.Y. was offi­cially declared the birth­place of Memo­r­ial Day by Lyn­don John­son in 1966, it is likely that the hol­i­day had many sep­a­rate begin­nings, with over two dozen cities claim­ing to be the birth­place of this day of remem­brance. The first obser­vance of Memo­r­ial Day was May 30, 1868, when flow­ers were placed on the graves of Union and Con­fed­er­ate sol­diers in Arling­ton National Ceme­tery. How­ever, the South refused to acknowl­edge the hol­i­day and hon­ored its war dead sep­a­rately until after World War I–when the sig­nif­i­cance of the hol­i­day broad­ened to honor all Amer­i­cans who had died fight­ing in any war, not just the Civil War. In 1915, a poet, Moina Michael con­ceived the idea to wear red pop­pies on Memo­r­ial Day as a tan­gi­ble expres­sion of honor for ser­vice­men who had died serv­ing the coun­try. This tra­di­tion ulti­mately spred to other coun­tries as well, and the U.S. Postal Ser­vice hon­ored Ms Michael in 1948 for her role in found­ing the National Poppy Move­ment with the issue of her like­ness on a 3 cent red postage stamp. One of her poems con­veys her rea­sons for choos­ing the poppy as the com­mem­o­ra­tive flower:

We cher­ish too, the Poppy red
That grows on fields where valor led,
It seems to sig­nal to the skies
That blood of heroes never dies.

Since the late 1950s,on the Thurs­day before Memo­r­ial Day, the 1,200 sol­diers of the Third U.S. Infantry place small Amer­i­can flags at each of the 260,000 plus grave­stones at Arling­ton National Ceme­tery. Addi­tion­ally, since 1998, Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts place a can­dle at each of the 15,300 grave sites of sol­diers buried at Fred­er­icks­burg and Spot­syl­va­nia National Mil­i­tary Park on the Sat­ur­day before the observed holiday.

A sense of belong­ing, and tra­di­tion enriches all our lives. Most of us have an ances­tor, a rel­a­tive, a friend, a coworker who fought in one of the wars of this country…since the Rev­o­lu­tion­ary War in our fight for inde­pen­dence as a nation. And, in their deaths, these indi­vid­u­als have made us the ben­e­fi­cia­ries of their ulti­mate sacrifice.

Mahatma Gandhi is quoted as say­ing, “The only tyrant I accept in this world is the ‘still small voice’ within me.” More­over, he made the fol­low­ing poignant com­ments about the ori­gins of violence:

“Seven blun­ders of the world that lead to vio­lence: wealth with­out work, plea­sure with­out con­science, knowl­edge with­out char­ac­ter, com­merce with­out moral­ity, sci­ence with­out human­ity, wor­ship with­out sac­ri­fice, pol­i­tics with­out principle.”

I think if you pon­der Gandhi’s state­ment, you will see the ratio­nale for every war we have fought to the present time some­where in the text. We are a nation built upon the prin­ci­ples of lib­erty and jus­tice for all. In efforts to pre­serve these prin­ci­ples both for our own nation, and to aid nations less for­tu­nate than ours, cit­i­zens of our coun­try have died in the process. And, as John Quincy Adams, our sixth Pres­i­dent of the United States remarked, “The influ­ence of each human being on oth­ers in this life is a kind of immortality.”

I’ll close this week’s Insight with a pow­er­ful poem com­posed as the author expe­ri­ences the Viet­nam Memo­r­ial. For all of you who have stood before this wind­ing gran­ite wall of names, you’ll iden­tify with the images he evokes. Over 58,000 Amer­i­cans died in this con­tro­ver­sial war, and I think this poem speaks poignantly of them, and ulti­mately salutes all our war-dead.

Fac­ing It

My black face fades,
hid­ing inside the black gran­ite.
I said I wouldn’t,
dammit: No tears.
I’m stone. I’m flesh.
My clouded reflec­tion eyes me
like a bird of prey, the pro­file of night
slanted against morn­ing. I turn
this way–the stone lets me go.
I turn that way–I’m inside
the Viet­nam Veteran’s Memo­r­ial
again, depend­ing on the light
to make a dif­fer­ence.
I go down the 58,022 names,
half-expecting to find
my own in let­ters like smoke.
I touch the name Andrew John­son;
I see the booby trap’s white flash.
Names shim­mer on a woman’s blouse
but when she walks away
the names stay on the wall.
Brush­strokes flash, a red bird’s
wings cut­ting across my stare.
The sky. A plane in the sky.
A white vet’s image floats
closer to me, then his pale eyes
look through mine. I’m a win­dow.
He’s lost his right arm
inside the stone. In the black mir­ror
a woman’s try­ing to erase names:
No, she’s brush­ing a boy’s hair.

Yusef Komun­yakaa

Stephen L. Hines, M.D.
May 2001

The Ellwanger Estate caters to women

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We all have gift and tal­ents. The most impor­tant thing is to rec­og­nize yours. We at the Ell­wanger Estate B&B rec­og­nize our gifts and tal­ents are in cater­ing to women.

As a busi­ness­woman myself, I know that I am inter­ested in crea­ture com­forts that suit me as a female trav­eler: from plush robes to van­ity mir­rors. So the Ell­wanger Estate has grad­u­ally been doing more to cater to the female traveler.

Every­one wants a safe, com­fort­able place to sleep, wash up, and maybe get some work done. So how does the Ell­wanger Estate cater to women? You find out what they’re look­ing for and you give it to them. And women want a spa: every­thing from license mas­sage ther­apy, thick bathrobes, curved shower-rods, van­ity mir­rors, book lights, I Pod dock­ing sta­tions, yoga mats, gourmet cof­fees and teas and satin-covered hangers.

There are more and more women in the work­place now and I think we don’t pay enough atten­tion to their needs. By pro­vid­ing such items as fluffy robes, a ladies-only emer­gency kit con­tain­ing panty­hose and tam­pons, make-up removal kit, hair dry­ers, mag­a­zines and large sizes of toi­letry prod­ucts, the Ell­wanger Estate B&B has given women more space in their suit­cases for shoes.

How­ever, it’s not all about supe­rior lev­els of ser­vice and ameni­ties, it’s also about safety. Some con­cerns, such as safety, are impor­tant no mat­ter what your gen­der. The Ell­wanger Estate offers on site park­ing, steps from the front door. The grounds are sur­round by a gated stonewall, and a home secu­rity sys­tem. You have a sense that you are in a secret garden.

But it does not end there. Almost every woman I know who trav­els a lot works out a lot. Just a block from the estate is the Gene­see River Trail. This trail runs up to 7 miles with loops from 0.6–2.6 miles along the scenic Gene­see River. Great for a run or a stroll.

Trav­el­ers also expect to be rewarded for their loy­alty. Loy­alty is huge. So the Ell­wanger Estate has a return guest 10% dis­count. For our return guest, the Ell­wanger Estate pro­vides con­sis­tency, and the more con­sis­tency you can have in your travel, the less dis­ori­ent­ing it is.

One of our guests was so enam­oured with the Ell­wanger Estate, that by the-end of her trip she was a bit reluc­tant to leave, stat­ing, “I wish we would of had more time to spend enjoy­ing those spa­cious liv­ing rooms and read­ing nooks. Being in the his­toric part of Rochester with all the mature trees was excel­lent with the fall foliage. Whether being indoors look­ing out from a read­ing nook or out on the grounds of the estate –it was relaxing. “

The feel­ing is wel­com­ing. The look is more Euro­pean, yet clean and crisp. The response has been “pos­i­tive, pos­i­tive, pos­i­tive.” And yes “The Ell­wanger Estate is on my list”.

P.S. Please visit my kitchen inte­rior designer Dani Poli­dor at this weekend’s Home and Gar­den Show!

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posted 3/25/2010

Spring Awakening

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Ha yes, once again the ground hog was right, so now for one more week of win­ter. The cal­en­dar con­firms this with Spring Equinox sched­uled for March 20, 2010. Did you notice the tree buds, the win­ter cro­cus, and the stir of my per­sonal favorite– the rab­bits? Spring is right around the cor­ner, and not too soon!

So the Ell­wanger Estate is hav­ing it’s own Spring Awak­en­ing with re makes, re-do, and recon­struc­tion, com­plet­ing every thing from rewiring lights and door­bell, to plumb­ing, insu­la­tion updates, and plas­ter­ing. And are we ready!

Since last sea­son three gar­dens have been res­ur­rected includ­ing George Ellwanger’s orig­i­nal rock gar­den and Jardin de Vie (Gar­den of life) in the South court. Inside crea­ture com­forts have been added with a guest bev­er­age center/ refrig­er­a­tor and updates to the rooms to include; trial linens by Compy Com­pany, book lights, and inte­rior dec­o­rat­ing updates.

A Spring Awak­en­ing Event is com­ing to the Ell­wanger Estate B&B the week­end of March 19–21, 2010. Our guests will be sur­rounded by Spring glory; evening Spring desserts, a Sat­ur­day demon­stra­tion on flower arrange­ments, and answers to ques­tions on spring planting.

We all look for­ward to ush­er­ing this Spring and a new sea­son with you all at the Ell­wanger Estate B&B.
posted 3/14/2010